My dad married a Indonesian woman about 3 yrs ago, and since then the live together, my parents are divorced, so me and my sister visit our dad during the holidays. Last year my sister was having problems in the last place we lived (kentucky) so she went to live with my dad, that didnt last long because my sister and my stepmom got into a fight, for instance one fight started because my stepmom put a bowl that my sister didnt wash on the stairs and my sister slipped and fell because of the bowl.So my sister came back to kentucky.
I personally have always had good experiences with my stepmom, but this school year i moved here with my dad because i wanted to spend time with him before i go to college. So im living here and im getting what my sister was saying, because at first i thought it was my sisters fault because she didnt talk to my stepmom, or cleaned. Before i came to move here i made an effort to learn about her culture, and i actualy got realy into it, but she is always mean.
I have talked to my dad about it, and he said that she looks at if my room, as if its dirty, im disrespecting her, but i think its immature to treat differently somebody based on their room, i mean come on! im a teenager! Im not saying that all indonesian people are mean b/c ive been to the indonesian party's at the counsel and they are really nice.
more details: when ever we are by our selves at home i get nervous around her because she puts of this mean vibe. so i dont realy talk to her, everything she says is usaly scolding or a one answer grunt. i don't besides from my room being dirty there is nothing i do wrong to her, and all my family thinks so too. b/c i am the most friendly person in my family.

I'm a Malaysian lady ,in a relationship with Bandung,Indonesian guy..for almost 2 years..he is Japan working and Im still in Malaysia working to.We communicate via YM almost everyday 24 hours.webcam and voice call.we love each other so much..untill....the current crisis between Malaysia and Indonesia...both of us starts to talk about it..and end up arguing..and both of us try our best to protect our own country T__T sad..frightened...wat should i do...both of us are emotional...but what should i do to protect our relation ship...n does this love between two conflict counrty gonna work out T__T
David@ but he finish his working contract in Japan by this coming September, n will be back for good to Indonesia.We will only meet up on October T__T I met his parents last May , alone, lone ranger to Bandung...it seems ok at 1st..but once im back in Malaysia..his mum accused me for being gold digger T___T omg...she dont even know dat i always send parcel to her son in Japan..which cost a lot...but still want to cal me a Gold digger T__T