Indonesian way of living?

hello,
I've got a little problem I want to get to know indonesian culture and language but I dont know where to begin I'm indo european,,even though both of my parents had indonesian relatives they dont know anything about it( I find it out by looking on family trees searching relatives and asking for 2 years!)
but they seem they dont want to have anything to do with it,,cause when I only say indonesia they are already like shut up!anyway does somebody know where I can find about indonesian culture. and I'm learning bahasa indonesian..but I dont know indonesian people does somebody maybe know a communtiy???Cause I dont think my bahasa indonesia will work out without practising/talking

Thanks in advance
Xara, thanks for your kind answer. Yes, I think the family name you mention is correct, that character seems familiar to me. For additional detail. My family come from Fukien, so it's fukein dialect. The middle character is used to show my level, so all of my cousins middle name is Hak. Then also in my childhood one of my relatives said that my name means "writer/poeter"